温家宝欧盟总部发言不备讲稿 称可以用心讲话。“们只坚持一点，那就是要互相尊重，完全平等。在这个基础上，什么问题都可以谈"

 

这个很熟悉的面孔，在 5.12 地震期间给予我强烈的震撼。第一次觉得国家领导人的亲和力。让我想起小学语文经常读到的周总理。一个真正能做大事的领导人，总是能在无论大事小事都让人觉得他的力量，可以拥护和爱戴的强烈愿望。他的真诚让我对国家的发展充满寄望。

 

一针一线

需要耐心,时间,积累,沉默

想起儿时迷恋的拼图游戏

 

昨天和几个好朋友终于可以碰头了

大家都很忙。虽然行情不好，但公司已然压榨，继续ot...

忽然发现原来我认识的北京女孩也越来越多

angle, landi, shanshan，vivi ...忽然觉得原来北京已经和我印象不太一样了，她们都是我觉得很有性格的女孩。

 

发现他们的日记都很喜欢用 “亲爱的”或者 “sweetie"

好像会很温馨的感觉

也许我喜欢这里的原因，是因为会觉得有自己的朋友，跨越了以前high school 的感觉，因为毕竟我们都长大了，大家已经站在很不一样的舞台上。追求，理想，自由，或者界定都很不一样。

 

这里就是我以前很想很想和windy可以实现的。在同一个城市。各自为自己事业奋斗。然后周末可以聚在一起，高谈阔论，或者就是品茶，或者去逛海边，吹风聊天。可以很fabulous，也可以很平实。想想在这里的姊妹淘好像也不赖。yoyo, landi, silvier, angle, vivi, stacey...和她们在一起觉得很踏实。当然梅e永远都是我觉得在这里有安全感的人。家的感觉。

 

最近过年看电视，像往年一样，很多香港艺人的新年愿望就是想要多陪家人。以前听都没得什么，不过，现在忽然好像有同感。难道人渐渐长大就是这样子？ 少小离家老大回... 看来也许归期不远了。知道自己其实是一个很跟着心走的人，因为其实自己真正快乐了，周围的人也会被感染的吧。

 

世界上两全其美的太难得...要取舍这里的自由和国内的亲情，真是好难抉择。也许我只需要一个真正能让我抉择去留的人，或者工作吧。我知道很多朋友在现在这个阶段其实都很迷茫。自己到底想要的是什么...还是有待发现。只是不要放弃尝试，这种勇气就是我们还能挥霍的。

 

 

 

冬

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快乐的意义就是 - 分享。

 

另外从cosmopolitan看到的 rule #1 - don't assume.

 

 

smart investors are concerned with a property’s features only in
terms of their capacity to generate wealth from that property.

 

1. Rent Levels. What level of rent are tenants paying? This information helps
investors project the income they can extract from the property. A few months
ago, a real estate agent in Florida was unable to provide me with this easy-tofind
data. Avoid that embarrassing situation if you want to be taken seriously.

2. Property Expenses. Prepare a detailed breakdown of the expenses associated
with a property, as well as those of comparable properties.

3. Tenant Turnover. How long do tenants typically stay on the property’s rent
rolls? How long do tenants remain at comparable properties?

4. Vacancy Rates. How many tenants currently live in the building? Are there
vacancies? What’s the vacancy rate for comparable properties? Be prepared to
specifically define “comparable.” Think in terms of market segments. Are
you going to compare the property to others with two-bedroom units?
Are your comparables in the same neighborhood? Don’t just say the
vacancy rate is 6 percent.

5. Zoning. How is the property currently zoned? Are you aware of any potential
zoning changes on the horizon?

 

When you think like an investor, it’s important to remember that possibilities
create value.

 

you will win esteem when you can talk about a
property’s appreciation potential rather than past performance. Entrepreneurial investors look where a neighborhood is headed, not where
it has been.

 

You may consider creating an archive of file
folders and/or maintain spreadsheets on your computer.

 

 

 

一些人匆匆来过，然后走了。所以他们属于过客。不要过分激动。保持平静的心境。 要见面的终究会相遇。

 

对于已经离开的，你有你生活，我有我忙碌。这样的距离，也许就是我们最 comfortable 的 six degree of seperation.

 

 

In "The E Myth Revisited", Michael E. Gerber says you must ask yourself these questions...

"What do I value most? What kind of life do I want? What do I want my life to look like, to feel like? Who do I wish to be? Your Primary Aim is the answer to all those questions.

Some writers suggest that one way to discover your Primary Aim is imagine your funeral and think about what you would want people to be saying about you at your funeral.

Your Primary Aim gives you purpose. It gives you energy.

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Some affiliates are successful simply by chasing the money. Others need a different goal. If you choose a niche that is right for YOU, one that matches your skills, interests and temperament, you're much more likely to succeed.

 

那天和灿在santa monica海滩上漫步的时候，我就告诉他，我一来LA 就爱上santa monica了。喜欢那高高的棕榈树，长长直直的街道，建在cliff上面的建筑，散落的人零星在沙滩上享受安静的海。还有好运动的人在岸边像火柴盒的小街上跑步，遛狗。真的，真的很喜欢这里的黄昏。夜幕降临的时候摩天轮的灯就会亮，游乐场的灯光闪烁会告诉海上的人这里就是，Los Angeles, 天使之城。

 

 

今天去santa monica 附近的一个condo面试，一个botinque real estate firm 的 intern. I really like Erika, she seems like such an upbeat person. to be honest, i dun even care about money that much...（i know i really need some），but the 3 things that she highlighed i am totally fond of: 1. green residence, 2. international buyers, 3. teamwork and flexibility. i hope that i will hear from her soon. The condo i went was a really nice one....从落地玻璃可以看到蔚蓝的海.... 就是很喜欢这样开阳的居所。she said a lot of celebrities live around there...haha not surprised ^^

 

I just feel so great these days....当我从wilshire 出来的时候，心情和太阳一样明媚。所以决定开3mile 去santa monica beach...哈，难道我愿望成真？我说，真的想找份工作在santa monica 附近，现在只差一线了。希望好运会一直陪着我。三街和santa monica beach现在于我而言已经有很多很好的回忆。我一直都喜欢看日落。可能因为喜欢the blue time....大家都下班了，可以回家和喜欢的人，或家人吃晚饭，黄色的街灯很温和的颜色。以前在广州喜欢在人行天桥上面看忙碌的环市路一条一条的车龙，的士。或者我真的是一个属于west coast的人。喜欢懒散，悠闲，恬静。我想，能牵着爱人的在每天傍晚去海边散步，一直到白发苍苍应该是件蛮幸福的事吧

 

 

 

今天和louis and wilson and lao xiang 去了游园。其实本来蛮累的，不过觉得还是不要一直呆在家好。后来发现到那边可以到处吃喝，还不赖 呵呵

最爽的是那带子，还有 capico的饮品，好好喝哦~ 那个卖带子的阿姨好好人，一直给我和wilson试吃，哈哈，非常hardsale...搞到我不好意思一口气给她买了8包

 

不过最好的还是最后的节目。每次见到latin dancing都会很激动，可能拉丁音乐的关系吧。热烈火爆。那对高中生跳好好哦~ 超级羡慕！

回想学了几个SESSION 的 salsa.. 哎。。果然要坚持才行！现在回想在uf的日子至少有会跳merengue （多谢nelson and momo 作伴）真是快乐时光~

 

现在想想其实想学的东西也蛮多的, 就是我这年的resolution吧：

 

今天周六一早起来大清洁...把房间收拾，搬了个办公桌出来，把布鞋洗干净，did laundry， 还有还有。。。

 

就是终于把电脑清洗了一遍！ 哦~~ 怪不得散热这么差，原来里面积尘那么多~~ =.=''

 

幸好弟弟在，帮我把电脑重新优化了一遍，现在文件夹都收整齐了... 速度快了很多！ yay! 哈哈 。。看来我还是挺电脑白痴的 呵呵~

 

以后不要overheat然后忽然关机就行了！ 实在太讨厌了 ！ ^_^

 

 

记得和 ALEX 说过，there's no perfect goodbye....

But yesterday when I was driving back from LAX,

i felt for the first time,
离别是为了再见

 

P.S.  Jan 14-15 are my happiest days in 2009 so far  =]

 

 

今天去上了一天课。虽然情况有点乱，但我还是觉得可以做。。希望自己在找到其他工作之前好好研究。

 

回到LA 以后一直都在见朋友，认识新朋友，饭局不断，新事物也不断。在梅e 的家也真有家的感觉...现在想想可能在LA的朋友比国内还多。。或者更加集中。像今天认识john，他也说he likes LA... SF is too liberal...haha..and i think china is too complicated...

 

我对2009其实也是充满希望的。。乱世出英雄嘛。。我觉得这其实可以是时机...只要把握得好的话...

 

朋友总在带给我心的体会，看法，新朋友的渠道, 机会.....衷心感谢。最近很感谢vivi, tony, mei e's tony, silvia, liu shuang yoyo, landi 老友， 还有 tony's brother tash (我de  LA 一日游换来tw无限日游哈哈，berry, whisper ppl...

 

好好努力！

 

今天在 hilton 的时候听到 pianist 在弹 the autumn leaves....it's always gonna be a great song... the ice cream time at the back of the car....

 

 

driving in LA is a pleasure...haha even not many people agree...i love fm 103.5 ... lots of good varieties of music....and the freedom i feel.....

 

 

 

After watching "seven pounds" ...and reading justin's note " Acceptance is understanding and letting go of the past....having stopped looking back..you can now start looking foward"....i now, at the beginning of 2009...have come to accept this affair...a beautiful, probably once a life time memory... i will dedicate it to part of my life's love story...i'd publish a great book on them...

 

It all started here.... a conversation at this pool table

 

 

To be continued...

 

The English Premier League football association buys its Chinese counterpart, the Chinese Super League.

What better way to signal a coming of age for China's urban middle class? The takeover would be a major bet that this growing socioeconomic group is ready to spend heavily on sports and entertainment—a bet that could open the floodgates for investment in other consumer sectors. Wallets are already opening up: witness the Olympics and the U.S. National Basketball Association's exploration of franchise and stadium deals in China. Such a purchase would also show that the country is willing to bring outside expertise and professionalism into a challenged domestic industry.

http://www.mckinsey.com/locations/greaterchina/mckonchina/ceoperspectives/Seven_ways_china.aspx

 

 

I've decided to stay in the U.S. for more job search...i can really tell the professionalism working here much better than in China....i know they are catching up but I really embrace the openess and diveristy and the innovation here....i know this is the right place to be....